
What upsets me most when I look at the photo above is the size of the stop sign to begin with. It's almost the size of a small sedan.
How in the hell does any driver miss that? And now local politicans think flashing lights will help?
What will help is the day when drivers learn to keep their eyes on the road.
Police say the 2003 Dodge pickup, driven by a 17-year-old Innisfil girl, was northbound on the 20th Sideroad when she failed to negotiate the stop sign. "It's a clearly marked intersection with a stop sign for the north and south (directions of travel)," said Sgt. Bob Eeles.
[Brandon Pugh's Facebook Memorial Group]
SIMCOE COUNTY, ON -- Councillor Peter Kmet is insisting safety measures be fast-tracked after a 20-year-old Innisfil man was killed in a collision at the 20th Sideroad and Concession 9 yesterday afternoon.
It is the fifth serious crash in as many weeks in the area, a problem so troubling South Simcoe Police started a safety blitz two weeks ago.
“Something has to be done about this,” Kmet said in a an interview with the local newspaper as he looked at photos of the aftermath of Tuesday’s crash. “There’s just too many accidents here.” PLEASE, THIS WAS NO ACCIDENT.
The 20-year-old driver of a Pontiac G5 was killed at about 2:45 p.m. He has been identified as Brandon Pugh (pictured).
Not much was released about the teen driver but I am positive she was NOT paying attention. Most drivers - stop sign or not - will do a left to right sweep with their eyes before approaching ANY intersection (ones with Lights, Stop Signs & Flashing Lights) especially those with collision-avoidance training. This driver, at 17, did not do that or else she would have made note of the stop sign and also noticed the approaching Pontiac G5. Driving is more than just staring ahead -- sorry.
Her truck collided with the Pontiac, which rolled onto its side in the ditch on Concession 9. The teen driver then continued through the intersection, colliding with an Infiniti driven by a 71-year-old Thornhill man. The teen driver of the truck and the Infiniti were not seriously hurt.
Kmet had recently introduced a motion at a recent council meeting, calling for a four-way stop and flashing red lights at the intersection.
“We’ve got to make people slow down here,” Kmet said. “If we can stop someone from getting hurt we should — that’s our job.”
Ok. I agree, that maybe the intersection - if it's as bad as he claims - could use more signage but what about the drivers?
On Oct. 28, at about 8:15 a.m., a northbound Dodge Caravan stopped at the same intersection and then proceeded, striking a westbound Honda Fit driven by a 60-year-old woman. The Caravan rolled over onto its roof. A 49-year-old Innisfil woman was charged with failing to yield to traffic.
Police made Concession 9 a priority following that crash, implementing a crack down on drivers -- which is how this should be handled, not a crack down on signage.
Eeles blames increased traffic, excessive speed, disobeying stop signs, failing to yield and inattentive driving for the accidents. Guess what? Me too!!!
Council approved super-sized stop signs for all intersections along 2Oth Sideroad last year. Yellow flashing lights were also installed at some intersections.
So did they help???
Nope.
Pay attention when you drive. Obey the speed limit. Do a sweep from left to right when you are 100 metres from an intersection. Wear sunglasses if it's sunny and keep a pair handy in your car. Put your cellphone away, put down your MP3 player and turn down the radio.
This is all common sense.
My sympathies to the family of the man who was killed. If charged only under the Highway Traffic Act, the teen driver will be fined in your son's death and nothing more. See
So what's the value of a mother's life? Is $500 enough?
Am I saying we stick all these negligent drivers in jail? No. I'm implying that we don't do enough to discipline and train new drivers. Collision avoidance courses are not mandatory in this province. Neither is driver training. Parents can teach their teen drivers how to drive, passing every bad habit they have onto them. This practice needs to be outlawed. If your new driver observes you talking on your cellphone, eating and drinking while driving, they will copy your behaviour.
Hopefully, the judge assigned to this 17 year old's case will think to send her to mandatory driver's training and also force her to take collision-avoidance courses.
But most likely he/she won't. Her lawyer will tell the judge that her guilt is punishment enough and the judge will concur and also mention that she didn't mean to kill anyone and at most, she will pay a $500 fine. See School bus driver fined $600 for fatal collision that killed Edmonton motorcyclist and musician, Justin Delano
Drivers shouldn't have to kill other drivers to learn how to correct bad habits.
Please don't practice on me. My life is worth more than $500.00.
And I'm sure Brandon's parents consider his life priceless.
Sunday, November 16, 2008
STOP SIGNS DO WORK but only when drivers are paying attention. Adding lights won't help. UPDATE: Brandon Pugh killed when teen driver blows stop sign
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33 comments:
I heard this on the radio this morning and I don't live to far from the accident scene. I asked my husband if he heard about the accident on the 20th Sideroad and without missing a beat, he said where at 9th Concession???? It apparently is a really bad area and there accidents almost weekly at that site. I guess the people of Alcona/Innisfil seem to think they are above the laws of driving as if you read our wonderful weekly newspaper, all you read about are the impaired drivers and accidents...when will people learn!!!!
"Drivers shouldn't have to kill other drivers to learn how to correct bad habits."
According to some of the shit I've read what people have written on stories on here, this is the ONLY way some of them learn and is acceptable to some. I'm sorry but killing my brother is not what I call practising. Go to drivers Ed. Or stay off my roads.
i lived there in the late 80,s and all the stops along the 20th were the same,risky.the 9th line is bad because its faster to go that way then taking the 8th line.
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I graduated high school with the guy that passed away in this accident it's mind blowing to find out some one you know and went to school with passed away at the hands of some one being so careless no amount of sinage or anything will improve that area the only thing that will improve it is people learning how to drive its the to wake the f*ck up and start caring about other people other than yourself on the f*ckin road
I'm so sorry for this and all that is happening to your family.
Please, when you are ready, there are folks over at the HEART Group that are ready to listen.
www.heartgroup.ca
Best,
Cindy (co-founder)
How odd the two crashes involved people from Innisfil...so far away from simcoe.
Innisfil is in Simcoe County?
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Simcoe_County,_Ontario
The municipalities of Simcoe County are:
Town of Bradford West Gwillimbury
Town of Collingwood
Town of Innisfil
Town of Midland
Town of New Tecumseth
Town of Penetanguishene
Town of Wasaga Beach
Township of Adjala-Tosorontio
Township of Clearview
Township of Essa
Township of Oro-Medonte
Township of Ramara
Township of Severn
Township of Springwater
Township of Tay
Township of Tiny
What's odd?
What kind of stupid comment is that?
You must be related to the 17 year old idiot driver.
Sorry, I thought it was teh Innisfil near barrie. I don't know the girl driving the car. I post here a lot. *shrugs*
I am so confused LOL I see it was simcoe county, not simcoe...I need to learn to read better.
Actually if Gigs looks to the right, she has it as Innisfail which is miles and miles and miles away from Barrie. It's in Alberta.
Fix!
When you wrote that I was in a bad mood. Sorry.
I knew both the driver and Brandon. It is a terrible tradgedy what has happened but it is just as terrible to see people calling this young girl an idiot. She made a (horrible) mistake, everyone makes mistakes. Shes human, not stupid or dumb or an idiot.
R.I.P Brandon!
If she was prone to those kind of mistakes, she should NOT have been driving. Period.
What she did was stupid. And deadly.
There's no mistake when it comes to blowing a stop sign and it's too bad she had to kill someone to learn a lesson.
Don't patronize these deaths by calling her actions a "mistake". If you screw up this badly driving you best be prepared for the consequences.
At least she will be able to be held by her family and move forward.
Brandon cannot.
Before people freak out, understand that I have strong opinions about what other people consider mistakes. Running a stop sign, especially one as large as the one this driver missed is not accidental or a mistake. Clearly, the driver of the pickup had her attention elsewhere and this is not acceptable.
Guilt is not punishment and guilt won't make her become a better driver as she moves forward in dealing with what she's done.
She needs training and a lot of it. And she should be open to it as a mistake like this one, as anonymous calls it, can't afford to be repeated. Ever.
It's too bad the name of the driver cannot be posted. She will be charged and hopefully will not get a slap on the wrist. She has grown up with a silver spoon in her mouth and from what her friends say... she drives her car like a weapon. Doesn't worry about anyone else, stereo blaring, on her cell phone. I have tried to feel sympathy for her but cannot find it in me. This was not an accident. An accident is a tree falling on your car not blowing through a stop sign and killing someone. Brandon's funeral is tomorrow. R.I. P. Brandon
If it's any consolation, if she makes it to court, despite being a minor, the judge would have the power and authority to ban her from ever being able to drive legally again but that still doesn't correct the path she took to get up to this kind of negligent behavior behind the wheel of a car.
Also, if she is charged, most likely I would never be able to release her name because she is a minor under the law.
Brandon was my cousin . He was beyound great and was greatly loved by his family.
The last thing Brandon would want is people fighting like this and pointing the finger.
We should all be strong for his family , understand that unfortuntly we are not able to turn back time. All we can do is pray for him and the family and remember what a great guy he was.
Brandon Charles Pugh will be loved for ever and never forgotten . xoxoxox
CLEARLY, some of you have been filled with half-truths and hearsay. I find it incredible that so many people voice their opinions when they know next to no truth. You should be ashamed of yourselves and i suggest minding your own business.
To Cindy Smith particularly, you have made it quite clear you're an ignorant gossip. GET OVER YOURSELF. Is this why this website was made? To insult and hurt people who are in the midst of suffering?
It is sad to think that this is how you spend your time. Your lack of knowledge and facts about this event and others has proved every comment made by you should be ignored. It seems to me you listen to highschool gossip rather than getting facts.
Accidental death is always a tragedy. This event weighs VERY heavily on the young girl and her family. Our prayers should be with Brandon's family AS WELL as the young girl's. Enough finger-pointing and name-calling nonsense. GROW UP. ENOUGH IS ENOUGH. PLEASE JUST KEEP YOUR MOUTH SHUT.
Your lack of knowledge and facts about this event
Fact. A driver blew a stop sign.
Fact. An innocent person is dead
Fact. Discussing the consequences opens up others to understanding why driving is a dangerous responsibility.
Fact. Cindy never said 17 year old driver didn't need support.
You, who accuse us of gossip ... please explain, if it wasn't a stop sign being ignored that caused this crash, what was it?
We have some pretty tough skin around here. Anger doesn't make anyone a better driver and I think it's quite clear that there isn't much anyone can do at this point to bring Brandon back to his family.
Oh. And don't be so rude and heartless by calling Brandon's death "accidental".
It was a preventable road tragedy.
The last thing Brandon would want is people fighting like this and pointing the finger.
I would hope that he would also want to people to learn from his death.
But I respect your opinion and I'm sorry for your loss.
At least I use a real name for you to address me with.
Posting anonymously, by anyone, should all be taken with a grain of salt ... this is the internet after all.
I offer up suggestions how road tragedies can be prevented. This is not facebook and the approach is different here. This is what I do on this site.
I don't feel sorry for your friend - the driver, and I felt that way when I first wrote this post and it doesn't matter what gossip or hearsay people write, my opinion remains the same.
She ignored a crucial road sign, designed to keep other drivers safe. It's an inexcusable mistake.
One that can't be undone.
I stated an opinion as to how she could deal with how "heavy" this is "weighing on her".
What did you want me to suggest? That her family throw her a party?
She needs better driver training, a suspension from driving (if she has prior infractions) and a fine.
If you really think she should just carry on with guilt as a punishment, than it would appear that you need to go back to driving school as well.
Cindy
I WOULD LIKE TO START BY SAYING I KNEW BOTH THE 17 YEAR OLD AS WELL AS I HAD MET BRANDON A FEW TIMES. MY HEART GOES OUT TO BOTH FAMILIES.
THE GIRL MADE A MISTAKE THAT SHE WILL LIVE WITH FOR THE REST OF HER LIFE AND NOTHING WILL CHANGE THAT.
MY HEART GOES OUT TO BRANDONS FAMILY AND ANY ONE THAT WAS A PART OF HIS LIFE NOTHING THAT IS SAID CAN BRING HIM BACK.
THIS HAS BEEN A LOT FOR THIS COMMUNITY TO SEE HAPPEN, IN THIS TIME I THINK THAT PEOPLE SHOULD BE LOOKING AT OTHERS AS THEY WISHED TO BE LOOKED AT. THE COMMUNITY HAS TURNED ITS HEAD ON THIS YOUNG GIRL, WITH GOSSIP AND LIES, SHE HAS MADE I MISTAKE AND NOW IT SEEMS IT HAS BECOME A CONTEST TO SEE WHO CAN MAKE HER LOOK WORSE. I WOULD LIKE PEOPLE TO THINK FOR A MINUTE THAT IT WAS THEM THAT CAUSED THE ACCIDENT OR THERE BROTHER, OR THERE MOM AND ALL THESE OLD FRIENDS AND OTHERS IN THE COMMUNITY WERE NOW BASHING THEM AND GETTING OFF ON OTHERS MISFORTINE. I WISH THAT PEOPLE WOULD STOP WITH THE NEGATIVE COMMENTS AND SEE THE REAL STORY HERE BRANDONS FAMILY LOST A LIFE, WHICH IS HORIBLE TO SEE, BUT IF THESE COMMENTS KEEP GOING ON YOU OUR DEEPLY HURTING A YOUNG GIRL AND HER FAMILIES LIFE. THEY ARE HURT AS IT IS THERE LIFE HAS BEEN CHANGED AND THEY WILL NEVER BE THE WAY THEY WERE.
PLEASE IN CLOSING LOOK AT YOUR FAMILY AND IMAGINE YOU WERE IN THE SAME SITUATION AS THE YOUNG GIRL, WHAT GOSSIP COULD BE BROUGHT UP ABOUT YOU?
I'm sure everything will come out in court.
When you drive irresponsibly and thus, put yourself in the public eye, really, is my site to blame for the gossip that has seized your town?
Really?
You've picked a battle with the wrong person.
Go get the driver some counselling and look at ways to help her. Screaming and yelling here does not help her or Brandon's family to heal, does it?
First many people do not stop at stop signs.. i have seen 10 in the last week.. either because they didn’t see it which does happen.. or because they choose not to. It happens all the time. I have seen people run lights and if anyone thinks that they are not guilty of it as some point then they are not honest to themselves or others. everyone makes mistakes some worse then others (or have worse outcomes) but it could happen to anyone. It could be you. Remember that. The girl.. she made a mistake like me and every other person on this website. She will suffer for her mistake for the rest of her life so don’t kid yourself. Next for who ever posted names and for the person that left it on here.. They did not obey the law was that a mistake.. or at least i sure hope so.. hope it was worth the trouble. Next you say you should look both ways before coming to a stop sign what about the other drives approaching the stop sign.. they should be look both ways as well. MISTAKES DO HAPPEN…Cindy you have made mistakes too.. You may think your perfect but your not. Nobody is and if you think you have to bash people for mistakes or failing to stop then I have to say you must be a sad person.. As I see many of us thrive of off peoples mistakes.. to make ourselves look better because there is no other way.. When we get in a car we are responsible for our actions. Not always good.. they can end bad and that is something that we live with. But each driver is responsible to watch the road, wear a seatbelt, drive safe… but do we all.. NO. and sometimes the results are horrible.. Yes she may never drive again, she maybe should take lessons but so should everyone. Cindy If you think she’s stupid then your fat it’s all about perception.
“You, who accuse us of gossip ... please explain, if it wasn't a stop sign being ignored that caused this crash, what was it?”
Ignored means she saw it! Gossip is what people are saying about the girl. You are gossiping because you do not know the whole truth. You’re not making anything better by bashing someone.
“We have some pretty tough skin around here. Anger doesn't make anyone a better driver and I think it's quite clear that there isn't much anyone can do at this point to bring Brandon back to his family.”
Anger is what everyone on here is creating.. Both families are feeling anger it is a natural feeling.. and part of grieving.
My thoughts go out to Brandon’s family and I know nothing will take the pain away. It is a shame that a young life has been taken way before its time.
ps cindy your site doesnt help Brandons family
I have
1. run a redlight when I first got my licence because I was too focused on talking with my passenger. Thank Christ it was late at night with no traffic. I could have killed someone or myself. From that point on, I made sure that I developed the habit of remaining focused on the road at all times.
2. ran a stop sign when I first learning to drive with the instructor in the car. The lesson was over after that. He called my gross negligence just cause to drop me as a client. And he did. I had to wait six months for a new instructor with the same school - young drivers. I was disciplined in this manner to teach me how serious driving is.
In 15 years, I have never run a stop sign.
I've run redlights in my favor as it being past the point of no return because of weather, stopping ability and speed and we've all done this. Sometimes it's safer to drive through then try to stop. This is called taking "evasive" action.
We can argue all day if you'd like but some of us have school, jobs, families, etc.
I don't feel sorry for the driver. What she did was stupid. Instead everyone think it's ok to call it a mistake which it's not. It's negligence and it needs to be corrected and she needs proper discipline and training not to it again.
Why none of you defenders can't understand any of what I have pointed out is because you are too consumed with how distraught your friend is to look at the bigger picture and that is, how did a licensed person, who successfully passed a road test, miss such a large stop sign in the middle of the afternoon on a clear, dry, day?
Well? All of you claim to know the "truth" but won't share so I'll go with my "gossip" (my opinion) that she simply was not paying attention.
Why is it so wrong to admit that? Is saying it was a mistake just a better way lighten the "heavy load" on her shoulders?
I'm going to give everyone some time to cool off. This is less about the driver and more about the man who died right now.
My site is not here to help Brandon's family. My site is here to help people like you who think just because "everyone runs stop signs" this is ok driving behaviour.
There's so much talk about "just a mistake", "everybody makes them", and the dreaded word "accident". We've dealt with the fact that there is nothing accidental about behaviour behind the driving wheel. Either you are focused or you are negligent.
But let's think about the "mistake". I've said it before, that mistakes that are committed with reckless neglect are just as evil as doing something deliberate. The argument "she didn't wake that morning thinking to kill someone" is meaningless. Why? Because she DID wake that morning thinking "I'm not going to drive responsibly and according to my license". This is called negligence.
Think about this. You would want your doctor to act completely in accordance to his license he agreed to? Right? You would not accept "a mistake" as an excuse if a doctor harms you "accidentally"? A driver's license is a solemn agreement that you will obey the law. It's no different than a doctor's oath, only the responsibility is for driving instead of doctoring.
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Why Calling a Road Death a 'Mistake' is Never an Acceptable Excuse for Killing Someone While Driving. Remorse, Guilt is Not Punishment
by Cindy Smith with contributions from Julie King and Paul Salami*
A man is suing two hospitals for a total of more than three million dollars for a misdiagnosis, that he says, cost him valuable time in extending his life and receiving proper care and treatment.
Montreal resident, Remi Oullette, was told three years ago he had an aggressive type of non-Hodgkins lymphoma. But last fall, a biopsy at a third hospital revealed he had Hodgkins lymphoma - a terminal disease and one that will kill him.
Imagine if this was you?
Imagine you are Remi's wife? His kids? Now, imagine you receive a letter from the two doctors responsible for your misdiagnosis, two doctors who went to medical school, passed several exams and tests, went through rigorous training, took an oath and lastly, received a licence from a government-regulated ministry that validates they are qualified to be medical doctors. A licence that tells the world, "Hey, I know what I'm doing."
A licence that says, "Trust me".
In that letter is a written apology. Both doctors tell you that they feel terrible for what's happened and that it was a mistake that they told you that you didn't have terminal cancer. They ask you not to seek legal action or look for punishment as they feel truly sorry and will have to live with knowing that you will die sooner than necessary because of their incompetence.
How would you feel?
One doctor writes, "When I woke up that morning, before I had you as a patient that day, I didn't wake up thinking I would not make sure your blood work would be sent to the appropriate lab and I didn't mean to throw your results in the garbage. I was in a hurry. It happens. I didn't say to myself, 'I'm going to take it easy today and not care that you said you weren't feeling well'. It was something that just happened."
The other doctor writes, "I'm a really great guy and I've never been in trouble before. I've only been a doctor for less than a year and you know, I'm not going to be perfect all the time. I mean, you're not perfect. We all screw up. You can't look me in the eye and say you never made a mistake before. I know I screwed up but you don't know me, so you don't know how much knowing that you are going to die, because I didn't do my job right, bothers me. I want you to know this will weigh heavily on my shoulders for the rest of my life."
Both doctors then ask that you don't sue them. The first doctor hopes that you don't call him negligent to other patients or tell other patients to end their relationship with him. The other doctor asks that you don't go to the media and say that neither of them deserve to have their faces or names splashed across websites and newspapers because you are dying.
But you are dying. They are not.
You won't have another Christmas with your wife or kids again. Your kids won't see you grow old. You won't be there when they graduate university or buy their first car. You won't be there when your son hits his first home run or your daughter breaks her arm ice skating. You won't be there for your wife when she's old and alone, after your youngest moves away to school.
You won't be there to watch your first grandchild be born, to look into that baby's eyes and see your eyes staring back at you.
You deserve no justice for the wrong that was handed to you, the years stolen from you, because a doctor didn't take the stipulations of his licence serious enough. No one deserves to be punished for making you suffer.
Why is killing someone while driving, while not caring, while running a stop sign, while being impaired, while speeding 140 km/hr on a 100 km/hr highway in the pouring rain, while texting a friend or dangerously passing a car any different from a doctor - a licensed individual - who takes a blood test and shoves its results into a wastebasket because he's in a hurry to get to a golf game, and doesn't want to be late, any different from a driver who blows a stop sign because she's late from picking her friend up from school?
Personal responsibility is not something you do when it's convenient for you. When you are in a position where the lives of others are in your hands, you owe it to everyone ... strangers, your friends, your parents and yourself to drive as conscientiously as possible, as safely as possible and to ensure you are trained to handle every situation that driving can throw at you in a defensive and mature manner. There is no room for error when you are hurtling down a road in a 2,000 pound object made of steel, plastic and glass carrying enough G-force to snap your brain from its stem.
I don't expect anything less but your best behaviour when you are behind the wheel.
And when your friends are in the car with you, even if it's your mom driving you to school, you should expect nothing but the utmost in care and caution from them as your life is not a 'mistake' and you can't be replaced. Ever.
Just like any doctor who misdiagnoses you and puts your life in danger, a driver is not any more immune to the consequences of negligent behaviour, and that includes going to jail. You shouldn't have to practice on the lives of other people to better yourself as a driver. That's a commitment you make the minute you receive your drivers' licence and it's no different than the commitment a doctor makes when he hangs a sign on a door and opens up a clinic to an assuming public.
*Name has been changed by request
I know it has been a long time since anyone has posted anything on here, but I just recently discovered this blog. I just wanted to say thank you to Cindy and Julie for their support and saying the things that we are all thinking. As for the "anonymous" comments, the fact that you are even trying to draw sympathy for this child driver (who should not even been allowed to drive a vehicle that big just after getting her G2)is disgusting. If it was your brother who had died from someone else's stupidity, you would not be so quick to defend the killer. I'm sure she is grieving in her own way from what she has caused, but at least she gets to feel the tears on her cheeks, she gets to feel her parents arms wrapped around her, telling her everything is going to be ok. She gets to go off to college, and wake up on Christmas morning with her family. She can have kids and hear people tell her that they love her. She gets to LIVE.
The sentencing in court was less then comforting, and there was a lack of respect from some people, which made the whole process even harder. Now, some people mentioned that Brandon would not have wanted these petty comments and fighting, and I believe in most cases this is true, but if it was I who died in the same scenario, it would all be fair game. I think this case is more proof of how our justice system is turning into a joke. There are more laws protecting the criminal then the victim. And anyone who is trying to portray this girl as a victim.....well, we know what side of the system your on. People need to start taking responsibility for their own actions, because in my mind, it doesn't state a very good example that when you kill someone on the road, as long as you weren't speeding, then you are just going to get a fine. Brandon's life was priceless, just like anyone else who has lost someone. And no matter what else could have happened in that court room that day, nothing can bring him back. But he deserves justice, something to say that he wasn't worthless, because in their eyes, he was only worth $500, and the girl was worth a lifetime being loved by her family, with every opportunity in the world. Pretty backwards I would say, when she was the one who broke the law.
For my brother, who is thought of every single day, and loved just the same.
Thank you for writing...
That must have been incredibly hard for you.
I promise you. This will change.
In your brother's name and all the others, this will change.
Well said. Very well said.
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